Case

Dear Rev. Lia

Ok!!! I knew , if my friend did something bad. I kept that big secret and make sure no one knew it. Cause i'm the only person who knew it. But one day police come to her and brought her. I went to the post police to see her. But she didn't want to meet me. She call the guardian to brought me out. I'm so scare if she doesn't want to meet me again. Next day, I went there to talk with her. She tell me, that she doesn't want to be my best friend anymore. I asked her. She said "You the only one who knew it." She stop talked for a while. And continue it. "Are you happy now? You tell them right?" But I said "No" cause it didnot do it. I explained every thing. Even she don't want to hear and meet me. Plese help me!! I'm so confuse, what can i do? Please help me!!

Evelyn

Dear Evelyn,
Do you really keep it a secret? If so, maybe you can tell your friend through a letter... Write everything in detail so that your friend will understand what you mean... And also, my dear, don't you be too worry about that case, there will always be a way of solving something... Actually, what have she done until the police caught her and brought her to the police office? What happened? You could explain more than this actually so this could be clearer... If what your friend did is a really bad thing and it has become her habbit, you could pray to God to help her to stop doing those things... Have faith in God and God will help you... There's another choice too so that you can choose which one is better. You could talk to somebody to help you make your friend want to speak to you and to listen to you again.. When your friend have calmed down, try to speak to her again.. Maybe that would be better because you talk to her orally and she can believe what you said more than what you write because she may think that the person who write down the letter is not you... So, there are 2 choices, you may choose one of them to help you... May God Bless You to solve you problems... God Bless You my dear..